8 The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
16We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
God is love. Language can confuse us, especially when we translate it. In these 2 verses ‘love’ is the agape love. It is a love freely given that expects nothing back. Often, we think of God as love, and then we confuse it with our modern usage of the word ‘love’. We think of love as a sentimental or gushy feeling. This is where we need the truth of Scripture to change our thinking and give us the real definition of love. That is found in (1 Corinthians 13:4-8) and you can read that on your own. Often it is cited at weddings and it was at mine too. Here is a love that denies itself for the one loved. The love of man is often conditional upon others returning our love, but God’s love does not seek the returning of love for His own benefit. We should always keep this in the front of our minds: We love Him because He first loved us. (1John 4:19) If we were to describe the love of God without the Word of God we would fall short. (1 John 3:16) says16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. Love is a giving up of your life for another. (John 15:13) says Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. What more could anyone give for another? (Romans 5:5-8) tells us 5 And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. 6You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. 8But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Did you notice the theme of death as the ultimate expression of love as I read from the Scriptures referring to the love of God? If we are to look at a picture of this attribute there is but one perfect picture – it’s the cross. It is in Jesus Christ loving us so much that He willingly laid down His life for us. That is the love of God demonstrated for us so that we might be able to understand it. For God so loved the world He gave his only begotten son… A laying down of one’s life or that dearest to him for another is the love we are talking about. This is the love that God has for you. Our flesh does not like us dwelling on this subject because 19 We love because he first loved us says (1 John 4:19). Remember what love we are talking about? Love that lays down your life. We see the love He first had for us in laying down His life for us, and as soon as we let the power and reality of that through our hard exterior and into our heart, that same type of love will be born in us. The NASB has a more accurate rendering of the Greek, for there is no pronoun that is the object of love in the Greek. It doesn’t say we love HIM or we love OTHERS. The text just says, “We love because…”
You can’t have that agape love in you without loving God and in turn those who He loves. And again, that love is death to self, laying down your life. Please take a look at what John writes in (1 John 4:7-21). In verse 9 it says God showed His love – it has been demonstrated by sending His only Son into the world. Why? That we might live through Him. God loves us so much that He wants to rescue us from our spiritually dead condition. We don’t deserve to be rescued, but He loves us, and He wants to rescue us and give us life. The only way it could be done was through the highest price He could pay. He loved you that much. If you ever have a question about the love of God toward you, look to the cross. Medical professionals will tell you they have to become somewhat insensitive to the pain of others because it hurts too much to deal with it every day. They have to do that to keep from getting ulcers and constantly hurting for others. I think we do the same thing in regards to this expression of the love of God in Jesus. When we take communion we try to re-sensitize ourselves to the love that He showed us, but often, even then, we will only go so deep. We need to let it grip our hearts, for His love begets love. His love will produce in your heart a love for Him and others. 9 Within your temple, O God, we meditate on your unfailing love says (Psalms 48:9). Any Christian would say they want to love God more, but few will let the power of the love of God break their heart and bring them that same kind of love. We must have the love that shows we are willing to laying down our life for Him and others. That is our first love. As we just sang “At the cross, at the cross, where I first saw the light...” If you want your first love back you have to return to that place you got it and let the pain of that display of God’s love grip you afresh. It will renew your desire to lay down your life for Him.
(1 John 3:1) says 1 How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! I like that word ‘lavished’. God’s love doesn’t just get distributed sparingly, for God declared Himself to Moses as the One abounding in love. What a need there is for us to know how much we are loved. We need the love of God in abundance. James chapter four tells us how jealous God is over us. The world looks at jealousy as a negative virtue, but we must understand the desire of God is that we be completely His. What else is there? If we belong to anything else, it is the world – and that is sin – and sin destroys. God’s jealousy is holy, unlike man’s. It is a desire to see us pure, kept from evil, walking in His life and light, completely His. The love and faithfulness of God are ever preceding Him, but remember that his rule and reigning is established on a foundation of righteousness and justice. (Psalms 89:14) declares Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you. The love of God will not ignore justice or keep from disciplining those He loves. With love comes some painful chastening. God will do, in love, whatever it takes to keep His child from going astray. He wants us to know the consequences of sin. Sometimes we will have to speak the truth in love to our family in the Lord, even though it pains them and us. Love speaks what is most helpful to the one loved. Did you ever notice how some unbelievers don’t seem to suffer from sin and you always do? Your Father is not going to let you slide. I know I can’t get away with anything, and I thank God for it. I consider that an expression of His love for me. If you want to walk closely with God welcome that consistent discipline from His loving hand. When God allows those painful experiences in life it helps me to remember what Christ suffered. He was beloved of the Father but He experienced humiliation and persecution. The fact that men were allowed to spit on Him and punch Him didn’t mean that God didn’t love Him. And so we, too, should not question the love of God when we are rejected, afflicted or in a trial. He had nowhere to lay His head, but He did have the Spirit without measure. Understand that spiritual gifts and spiritual comfort are gifts of God’s love that are worth more than wealth, more than pleasure, more than all the world can offer.
If we will see the love He puts into planning each day of our lives // we will be more in love with Him more than ever. (Psalms 89:15-16) reads 15 Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD. 16 They rejoice in your name all day long; they exult in your righteousness. I was thinking about these verses and, what it means to learn to acclaim or praise God. We praise him for what He does in our lives. Some eyes see the works of God all around them throughout the day. The more I walk in the Spirit the more I am tuned into those things in which He expresses His love to me and I praise God for them. The more I walk in the world the more readily I see things as discouraging and praise is missing from my lips. When I do this, my focus is off the love of God. It is like I’m looking for something to complain about instead of things to praise about.
Loved ones, if we are going to touch our community, we must be willing to allow God to change us from whiners to winners! Winners realize they have won. They don’t focus on the little errors of others. They are focused on the victory of Jesus Christ. Because God loved you so much He made you a winner in His Son. When He said, “It is finished!” He was declaring His victory for you. When He rose from the dead He rose victorious over death and hell. If you’ve risen with Him you are a winner! His abundant love is upon you. Why dwell on some little fault in your brother? You’ve got bigger things, better things, to dwell on. Dwell on the God who loves you. Dwell on how to share Him with others. What would this church look like if every one of us would do that? What would people see when they came to visit? They’d see the love of God because you are willing to keep your eyes fixed on Him as He changes you! Please read (Eph 3:16-19) about His power. We need His power to see His love in the world around us. When we are willing to receive it and see it, His love establishes us and roots us in Him. Nothing can separate us from it. I pray that all of us would start to see the dimensions of the love // that God has for us, so that we might be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Just as with all His attributes, God expects His life in you to express His love, His unconditional love to Him first. That is the great Commandment, and then to others as His love flows through you. John said, if that isn’t happening, we probably don’t know God, because GOD IS LOVE. The invitation is to open our hearts once again to Calvary and our eyes to His love expressed to us in so many ways every day. Then we need to return that love and let it flow to others. Keep your eyes open to His love as you go through each day and your ears open to His words of abounding love toward you.