In the Christian life there is no substitute for prayer. We can have enormous energy and enthusiasm for the Lord, but that is not a substitute for prayer. Today’s Text is from Matt 7:7, It reads: "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. "Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! The Greek translation literally means that we should keep on asking, keep on seeking, and keep on knocking. Look at the last line, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him? In the text, God wants us to ask! We are to always pray and not faint.
But…That seems to be a problem for many of us, we pray so many times and wonder if our prayer is ever heard. We often ask why and cry out to God “Why haven’t you answered my prayers”? But many times it’s not because they aren’t heard, it’s because they aren’t asked for. Prayer is not a one way conversation with God, he may not speak in an audible voice to us, but he speaks to our heart and lets us know what to do and what to pray for. Here’s how you know you are on Praying Ground.
1. How should we pray so that we know our prayers will be answered? In Matt 6:7-8 it tells us how not to do it. We don’t pray to God to impress Him or use repetitions, we don’t pray to inform God, he knows what we need, but we are to pray to invite God to work in our lives and our hearts. Matthew 5 reads “And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they think that they will be heard for their many words. “Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him. 2. Why aren’t my prayers getting answered? Is there something in my life that is hindering the answers to my prayers? First: One of the greatest things that obstruct prayer is sin. When sin blocks prayer, the real problem is not that we have sinned, for we all have sinned, but that we have sinned and have not repented. Its only un-confessed sin, deep down in our hearts that stops our prayer from getting through. Forgiven sin does not hinder our prayers. Forgiven sinners are welcome in God’s presence. But the first requirement of prayer is to confess anything in our heart that is not of God. When your sin is forgiven you can be confident that God will hear and answer your prayers. We can’t have the privilege of prayer without the purity of heart. Faith is the second requirement of true prayer, prayers without faith are incomplete. God will always respond to our prayers that are in accord with his nature, his purposes and his promises. Thirdly, Obedience is fundamental to effective prayer. Only people who obey God have the right to go into his presence with requests. Often when prayer fails and we receive no answers we assume the problem is with God, but the problem is with us. Jesus reminds us that if we remain in him and his words remain in us we may ask what ever we wish and it will be given us Psalms 37:4 says Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Begin a life of obedience to God. 3. For what is it proper to pray for? Philippians 4:6 says, Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. There is nothing in life outside the reach of prayer. If it concerns you, it concerns God. We can pray about everything both big and small. Nothing lies outside the will of prayer except that that lies outside the will of God. Anything we ask for will be done for you. There is the promise in John 15:7, If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. But, once again the will of your prayer must blend with his will. God will guide and God will direct your prayers, and you will find yourself praying in the will of God. The greatest privilege we have is prayer. The greatest failure that most of us have is lack of prayer. With prayer and supplication which means we must be humble, let your prayer requests be known. 4. Does God always give us what we ask for? No and thank God for unanswered prayer. Moses was feeling sorry for himself and asked God to kill him, God said NO. Paul asked that the thorn be taken from his flesh 3 times and God said no. Why, because he gave him something better-Grace. How many people prayed that before Paul was a believer and he was persecuting Christians and watching them being stoned to death prayed for God to strike Paul dead? God did not answer their prayers that way, God struck Paul ALIVE and he went on to become a great man of God. If you have a grudge against someone God will not hear you. Because in the Lord’s Prayer it says, Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. See, we are commanded to forgive them. Well you might ask, can I pray for our personal needs? Sure, but we can never pray for selfish reasons. God can also delay the answer to prayer and it is always with good reason. Sarah’s prayers were heard, granted, and then delayed until God wanted to show them as with the birth of John the Baptis. With God, timing is more important than time. At times God has to line up situations and for people to do certain things where prayer can be answered and maybe he has to line you up with differing circumstances in your life so you can be the answer to someone’s prayer. Have you ever thought about that? When the answer doesn’t seem to come when we want it to, we grab the Bible we start to look for the answer and search and develop in our knowledge; God is on his own timetable, not ours. God wants to pray for us more than we pray for him. How many times are we praying for people to get better from illness than for them to be saved? We may be praying for them to get better and Jesus is praying for them to come home and be with him. I know that has changed the way I pray. Your prayers may simply just have been denied because you’re not asking according to his will and he can’t give you what is not according to his will. 1 John 5:14-15 says, Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of Him. If we have sin in our heart or praying outside the will of God we won’t get our prayers answered. He will say no. 5. What do we do if our prayers are not answered? Keep praying, He will hear us. He may not always answer our prayers in the way we want him to answer it. Sometimes, he gives us things that are much better. 6. Should we expect a miracle every time he answers prayer? No, but sometimes it can be. Sometimes God needs to do things to make sure he is the only one that should be exalted and that he is the only one that can get the glory. That’s why he waited for Lazarus to be dead before he raised him up, made the blind to see, and inexplicably healed people both today and in his time. Really, there are no other answers but God does do miracles even though others try everything to explain them away. 7. Does God have favorites who prayers he hears? No one is favored in giving prayer. It doesn’t matter if it’s the preacher, you, me, your kids, anyone can pray. Anyone who has a clean life, pure heart and loves the Lord Jesus can pray and have their prayers answered.
In closing we should remember that not praying is a sin, look at 1 Sam 12:23 Moreover, as for me, far be it from me that I should sin against the LORD in ceasing to pray for you; but I will teach you the good and the right way. In Luke 18:1 mark 14:38, it says how we can get into trouble by not praying: Then He spoke a parable to them that men always ought to pray and not lose heart, Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” We always seem too busy to take the time to pray. When we ought to be praying and are not, we are just trying to control the situation our self and we can’t do it ourselves. This is where my wife reminds “Did you pray on it?”
I CHALLENGE YOU If you are not saved, I can help you down the right. He will forgive every sin you ever had, he will cleanse your heart and give you new power and when you die he will take you directly and immediately to heaven. From the minute you trust Jesus, you will be instantaneously saved and your life secure if you really truly receive him as your Lord and Savior. Pray from the heart and pray it like you mean it and you will be firmly planted on praying ground.